Ellen told me that we have clashes in opinions over certain topics and controversial issues.
"I'm not being pissy, I'm just stating fact," she over explained. Her inner voice said, "Maybe we should work on that so you can officially be in my group."
"Isn't it natural?" I asked. "But you know, I don't fight, argue, discuss, and defend issues with you that I don't give two cents about. I don't need to prove anything to you, much less argue about something pointless, because frankly, I don't care. If it isn't in my star system, then I obviously don't think about it. And the really cool thing is, is that I don't care about your opinion. And if push comes to shove, I won't care about you."
I wonder what her face would have looked like if I actually said this.
"I'm not being pissy, I'm just stating fact," she over explained. Her inner voice said, "Maybe we should work on that so you can officially be in my group."
"Isn't it natural?" I asked. "But you know, I don't fight, argue, discuss, and defend issues with you that I don't give two cents about. I don't need to prove anything to you, much less argue about something pointless, because frankly, I don't care. If it isn't in my star system, then I obviously don't think about it. And the really cool thing is, is that I don't care about your opinion. And if push comes to shove, I won't care about you."
I wonder what her face would have looked like if I actually said this.
Sometimes you have to say it, because not saying it only means you're holding on to something bad.
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But what if saying it means destroying every piece of self-esteem one had made?
DeleteWould it really do that, or are you just over analyzing? Words are important, especially the right ones. I'd say it.
DeleteMaybe I am, and maybe I will [say it].
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ReplyDeleteI have a terrible habit of verbalising my spew of thoughts and regretting it almost immediately, or maybe it's an inconvenient gift? All I know is that keeping my mouth shut is something that's taking me a long time to learn...
ReplyDeleteLearning to do anything that is not of habit would have been difficult.
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DeleteAnd thank you.
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